Sex and Relationships
Sex is everywhere, in magazines, films, music and on all the TV soaps. You may think that everyone is ‘doing it’ and feel pressured into having sex because you think all your mates are. Don’t get stressed by feeling that everyone is having sex but you. If someone’s boasting about having sex, it’s possible that they’re pretending.
Always remember that you never have to do anything that you don’t want to. Having sex is a very intimate way of being with someone and just because you’ve done it before, even with the same person, doesn’t mean that you have to do it again. If you have any doubts at all about having sex, it’s not the right time. Don’t be scared to stick to your beliefs and values whether they’re personal, religious or cultural.
Before you decide to do anything, make sure you feel confident that you have all the information about sex and relationships. If you have decided to have sex, it’s important that you’re both ready. You will need to talk to your partner about contraception to protect you from an unplanned pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Condoms are the only type of contraception that helps to protects you and your partner from an STI and unplanned pregnancy.
It can be important that you both have someone to talk things over with. You may be able to talk to your parents or carers, but sometimes this can be embarrassing and your friends may not have the right answers. Although the legal age of consent is 16, you can access confidential advice and services from a trusted professional from the age of 13.
To find out more information and to get advice about sex, relationships and contraception including free condoms or details of local health services phone “Worth Talking About” on 0800 28 2930.
