Points to Remember

It is important to remember:

• They are the one who has to live with the consequence of any decision and action.
• Leaving is an extremely difficult decision to make, involving both emotional and practical considerations. The abuser may bring emotional pressure to bear, promising to change their behaviour.
• Frequently, leaving a violent and abusive partner only signifies the end of the relationship but not the end of the violence or abuse.

The following messages may help:

• Domestic abuse is unacceptable
• Everyone has the right to live free of violence, abuse, intimidation and fear
• Domestic abuse is very common
• Domestic abuse is very dangerous
• The abuser is responsible for the abuse